Hmmmm.....
Well, In January, a group of girls I know decided to make THIS the year they all got fit and back in shape.
Dieting challenges began, and exercise classes or walking regimes, and even tanning at the local salons. Their very own little makeover competition.
Well.........that has caused a bit of disturbances at some of the girls homes. Seems there are a few insecure husbands and boyfriends out there because a few of them(the girls) have been accused of having a fling- just because they have decided to better themselves. Heck, even one of the girl's DADs asked her was she having an affair because of her weight loss.
Well, men, if they weren't they might be considering it now, since they're being accused of it anyway.
Paul and I talked about this and he says guys minds work differently than girls. I just think it's crazy.
I mean, if Paul suddenly started shaving and trimming his beard every day and dressing in dressier clothes and wearing cologne every day instead of dressing in jeans and a pullover shirt, I'd be thinking, "Lucky Me!!!" I wouldn't be thinking, "What the hell is he dressing nice for? Who's he seeing while I'm at work?"
Calm Down Guys....just because your girl is losing a bit of weight and exercising and wearing makeup once in a while- doesn't mean she's having a fling.
Now, when she starts disappearing from work and acts like she's been there, and strange mens numbers start showing up on your caller ID, and she comes home freshly showered and wearing different panties than she had on when she left.........then you can start worrying and asking questions.
Sometimes girls just want something to change- and sometimes that something is the size of their ass- and sometimes- they just want to feel better, and sometimes.....it's actually YOUR attention they're trying to get back because they notice the second glances you give the woman in the mall who isn't particularly beautiful- but has a nice toned body and is dressed nicely....(they do tend to wear too much perfume tho).
A hug and kiss and an honest comment about how their jeans look a bit loose lately goes a LONG way in making your woman remember why she married/chose you for a boyfriend in the first place.
Paul's right.....guys and girls minds DO work differently.
A Peek Into The Misadventures of My Crazy Upside-Down Life.
1 comment:
Yeah sometimes we just like to feel pretty.I tend to wear just jeans and tshirt most the time but every now and then even I like to dress up and put on makeup. It doesnt mean anything other than I just want to feel like a girl and feel pretty that day.Im lucky though no matter what Frank always hugs me and kisses me and tells me Im beautiful, even when Im sure he has to be stretching the truth maybe a little bit :).
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