Why is it that when we live alone, we do all the chores automaticly. We clean up eveything without question- just because it needs doing.
But when we get married or live with someone(not a room-mate) we automatically begin griping about having to do the exact same things we did before?
Why does it suddenly become a big THING that each does "their fair share"?
I realised hubby and I were crabbing alot at each other about that very thing, and I just started thinking. What difference does it make if he or I takes the dishes to the kitchen at the end of the day? What difference does it make if he or I cook when it's mealtime? What difference does it make if he or I empties the bin?
What difference does it make that I empty the ashtrays even tho I hardly smoke at all? What difference does it make that he does my laundry when he doesn't wear it?
I am just happy we are together and are happy. Those issues are minor insignificant things that make no difference in the grand scheme of our universe and I refuse to bicker about them anymore.
Unless he doesn't do his fair share.