Sadly I speak from experience, in that, I lost my mum 6 years ago. . .also suddenly. I know what I went through and I know what my Gran went through burrying the child she expected would out-live her. . .
But I won’t claim to know exactly what you are going through.
Time heals because otherwise you wouldn't go on and it sounds like you have lots of people who need you to continue to go on. But time doesn’t make us forget. And we wouldn’t want it to anyway.
DQ- I have buried both sets of my grandparents, my father, and various aunts and uncles and cousins. Nothing compares with having to bury your child. I'm not saying the others were easy...not even close....but your child should be burying YOU- not the other way round. The hole it leaves in your heart couldnt be filled by the entire universe.
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*thinking of you*
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Sadly I speak from experience, in that, I lost my mum 6 years ago. . .also suddenly. I know what I went through and I know what my Gran went through burrying the child she expected would out-live her. . .
But I won’t claim to know exactly what you are going through.
Time heals because otherwise you wouldn't go on and it sounds like you have lots of people who need you to continue to go on. But time doesn’t make us forget. And we wouldn’t want it to anyway.
DQ XXX
Thx Awaiting...hugs...
DQ- I have buried both sets of my grandparents, my father, and various aunts and uncles and cousins.
Nothing compares with having to bury your child. I'm not saying the others were easy...not even close....but your child should be burying YOU- not the other way round. The hole it leaves in your heart couldnt be filled by the entire universe.
xxx
Sunny - I am so, so sorry. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and hearts.
I'm speechless... I can't believe this happened to you, I'm sure there's nothing I can say to make you hurt less, but if there was I'd say it.
The best thing to do, I think, is to just think of all the wonderful times you've had together, and it'll make you smile.
And adding to what Drama Queen said, time doesn't heal you, but it makes everything easier to cope with... makes it easier to accept..
I'll keep you in my thoughts.. get some rest, know you need it... love you
Love and hugs xoxox
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